Why am i having this l discharge?

i never had l disharge until 2 yrs after i had a baby now the discharge is constant. i went to several gyn's and they all say it seems normal some say they can see inflamation and theres nothing they can really do about it. and its not a yeast infection. but i am going absolutley crazy!!! i didn't have this before i had my baby. now i can't stand having with my husband because it builds up around his and my with the consistensy of yogurt!!! its disgusting and embarrasing but there is no smell. so i know i don't have chlamydia or anything plus we got tested and we were ok. i can't even pull up my panties after i use the bathroom becuase it feels disgusting so i just put on a clean pair. i notice i dont dishcarge the 2 or 3 days before and after my period.(and with hubby during this time is awesome because my body gives the right amount of moisture) but the rest of the month i am discharging...i wonder if it has anything to do with my hormones? but wouldn't the gyn's who checked me out test that? the other night i was feeling this dull pain in both of my ovaries i could n't sleep so i will set up another doctors appt...i am not optimistic i dont know what else to do though. i wonder if it could be bv...becuase sometimes it does itch but its not cottage cheeselike like a yeast infection.but like i said the gynos keep saying its nothing!!!!! i feel like this is destroying my love life with hubby i want to be the wife that he deserves. but how could i if everytime we have we have to stop to wipe of all the white cream that comes out of me, ans it makes me self conscious....please help me.